"When it comes from Within"

 "When it comes from Within" - you do not count TIME and thats the secret to happiness.

My learnings with my wonderful kids

1. Work with them to do activities that "Slows them down", They are full of enegy and you have less. This helps with the balance.

e.g.: Drawing, Music, Lego, Reading Books

2. Be Part of their activity by spending time with them, not just instructing them. Be a Friend, Push them - Trust me they are ready to learn... do not take their first NO, find the reason - Fix it and then retry. Works like a charm

3. Make them own their decisions, Punishment if at all should be more time bound - this will help them value time. 1) my favorite : You can read a book for 10 mins or 30 mins of Do NOTHING.

4. We have a rule in our Home, If you want a reward, Good work needs to be done.

No work, No Rewards

5. Play some physical/home based game every week with them

6. We spend the night Being grateful for our life/bhagwanji and reading a wonderful story together.

As they become more Independent - Life becomes easier...

Has it worked all the time, NO - you adjust adapt as per your Kid.

Every Kid is different

7. Make sure their answers, their behaviors, their actions are a result of multiple perspectives, so that they can reason well, understand well and be full of gratitude towards life and the blessings.

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As Parents

- be Truthful/Genuine

- if you do not know something - say clearly you do not know.

- Your Kids are you Mirror - its for you to Notice it and change

---more to write in an expanded post later--

What are your key learnings?

Paryushan

The only festival is the world which is about going back to basics, Minimalism, doing more with less, Self Control, Eat less (a lot of fasting)

Controlling your desires (all your senses) and focussing on improving self by trying to experience yourself using Samayik and Pratikraman.

Asking for forgiveness and forgetting others though all mind, words, body (मन से, वचन से, काया से मिच्छामी दुक़द्दम)! Making yourself Judgement FREE and hopefully extend the same to rest of your lives.

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Paryushana

Hu to natvo - हु तो नातवो थई ने , एवा नाटक नाच्यो हो जिनवरिया

lyrics: https://docs.google.com/document/d/1--w4MbdvAjj7psqw_Fq0I8ejzh5k_bTr4s3ysSw44PM/edit

original song: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MPUvqVUYPHs

Can we use plants to clean our water? [idea]

 Cucumbers, Water Melons, Citrus Fruits, Coconut are classic examples where water is a major part of them. We are very happy and feel safe to have these wonderful natural powerhouse foods.

Do you think we can learn how this plants/trees filter water and make it wonderful for us? 

Then we can imagine the wonderful world of good water all around us.

What do you think?

Happiness after India T20 world cup win

 Jio mere laal : https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tlteSQPcV54&ab_channel=GoldVintage

Life is just simple Math - addition and subtraction

• We keep adding until some time, everyone has their definition of Enough. One day we will all be Zero.
• Learning Subtracting is super important, I have started to appreciate it a lot in the 3+ years.
• Learn to subtract and unlearn are becoming more and more clearer as I age in this journey
• Everyone's story is different and experiencing this is the only way to feel it

Thanks to my Gurus and everyone, grateful for them to make me understand this sooner. 

Life is so much better with the subtraction lens.